Now-a-days, both men and women tend to marry late around 27-28 of age years owing to changing priorities with the times like higher education and stability in employment or business. This obviously impacts the other processes associated with a married life.
When a marriage bond is being fixed, certain attributes like blood group, blood disorders, ovarian health evaluation, fertility, heredity, STDs, HIV etc. are tested for. This seems more modern to certain people; if we talk about matching Kundalis, they say “we don’t believe in all this, we are opting for medical tests as it is more scientific”
For a happy and harmonious marriage, a couple must have mental, moral and physical compatibility. For this very purpose, the sages of the Vedik period thousands of years ago have enumerated particular norms and principles for marriageable couples. We know it as Vadhu-Var Goon Milan.
The factors that need thousands of rupees worth of tests to tell us what we want to know have already been studied and put into practice by scholars who formulated the matching of Kundalis. Goon Milan tells us much more than these tests do. Kundali matching for marriage is important.
Naadi: The progenition ability and quality of the couple is indicated by naadi. If an ‘ek-naadi dosh’ occurs, there could be possibilities of obstacles in child-rearing or in worst case, the couple may be deprived of the joy. In the modern age, this is done via fertility tests and ovary examinations.
Yoni: As much as mental and moral compatibility matters with one’s partner, so does physical compatibility. This is examined by the Yoni factor of the Goon Milan process.
Gan: Indicates the partners’ mutual mental compatibility.
Along with this, there are other steps known as the Ashtakoot that compute mathematically how compatible the potential spouses will be.
By examining the bride and groom’s Kundalis individually, we can gauge their health risks, longevity, personality, addictions, career and many other dimensions. If there happens to be a case where the individual has a short span of marital bliss or there are obstacles in their life, we can know about it from their Kundali.
For ages past, the Kundali matching has followed tradition as it based on carefully studied principles. Though today it is supplemented by the sciences, still it was arranged long before via thorough studies and intricate tabulation for the general public to understand easily.
This does not mean that once a proposed couple’s Goonas are matched and Kundalis appear compatible the couple will have an absolutely blissful and flawless married life; our lesson from this must be that though the scientific examination can tell us about physiological health but the Vedic systems also examine all-round compatibility which is important as well as beneficial.
The Karma Siddhanta (the Karmic Principle) states that all that is destined to happen in one’s life will take place certainly, but we ought to be careful and make better-informed decisions while choosing a partner, all the rest is on God’s will.
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